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It has been theorized that animals who have a complex social hierarchy and pack mentality, such as dogs, primates, and elephants, tend to have a higher likelihood of showing signs of mourning. This does not discount animals such as cats, rabbits, or birds- they are simply less likely to show the “typical” signs of mourning such as whining or crying.

Additionally, the strength of the relationship plays into the duration and intensity of the grief. For instance, a dog who loses an owner who they’ve known since birth will grieve intensely. Similarly, animals who have spent mass amounts of time with an elderly owner are likely to be more affected by that owner’s absence.

A study conducted by the ASPCA showed that after a loss, over 60% of pets experience 4 or more of the following:

• Change in appetite- the animal may eat slower or not have an appetite at all.
• Changes in vocalization- pets who normally vocalize sometimes become quiet and withdrawn. Conversely, pets who are normally quiet may begin vocalizing (barking, whining, yowling, etc.)
• Changes in habits- Pets showing signs of mourning will also have altered sleep schedules- some will sleep more, and some will be unable to sleep. Additionally, some pets will pace or hide when they do not normally exhibit these behaviors.
• Changes in personality- Some pets may develop separation anxiety when their primary caretaker is no longer around them. These pets can also exhibit destructive behavior when left alone. The pet may become withdrawn from new caretakers, or even combative (growling, hissing, etc.)
• Changes in grooming and bathroom habits- Animals who usually groom themselves may cease grooming, and some will use the bathroom in unusual places.
• Seeking behavior- looks for companion in their normal resting spot. For example, if their primary caretaker had a favorite spot on the couch, the animal may be found there more often than they would be prior to the loss.
• Compulsive behaviors- some animals will engage in “barbering” to soothe themselves; “barbering” refers to a repetitive motion where the animal will lick, bite, scratch, etc. themselves to the point of removing hair and causing tissue damage. (Source: https://cvets.net/separation-anxiety-dogs-cats/)

Yes- animals cannot verbally communicate their feelings to us. They also have limited contact with the outside world. To them, you are their world- they cannot remove themselves from an emotional environment by walking away or FaceTiming a friend. Helping to establish a new and powerful connection with your pet will help them to create a new routine, which will aid them in their grieving process.

• Spend extra time with them- Try to distract them with their favorite activities and focus on directing attention toward them.
• Provide closure, if able- Some behaviorists believe that a pet’s grief response is due to confusion concerning where the deceased has gone. If they are able to see their loved one, they are likely to realize that a permanent loss has occurred.
• Control your emotions- Pets can mirror our feelings; while it’s fine to allow your pet to console you, be aware of their response, as an owner’s distress can be mirrored by the pet.
• Show them extra affection- pet them more often, make eye contact, and verbalize household routines.
• Distract them- if your pet enjoys company, invite friends over to pique your pet’s curiosity.
• Provide entertainment when you are gone- hide treats around the house to offer a distraction and leave plenty of toys within their reach.
• Redirect behavior- reward the pet with a hug or a treat when warranted. When they exhibit inappropriate behavior (howling, barking, etc.) either ignore them or distract them by calling them to you.
• Respect the old, but consider the new- pets enjoy basic routines, and a disrupted routine can lead to more stress. However, adding a new routine or toy can distract your pet and allow them to move past their mourning period.
• Consider medical intervention- If the pet is exhibiting signs of grief for a prolonged period of time, consider consulting a veterinarian. Once they have ruled out any medical problems, they may prescribe a behavior modifying drug to the pet to calm them down.